Pros and Cons of Coming Out
Pros
· Living an open life.
· Developing closer, more genuine relationships.
· Reducing stress of hiding our identity.
· Being part of a strong and vibrant community.
· Becoming a role model for others.
Cons
· Not everyone will be understanding and accepting.
· Some people may feel confused or perhaps hostile.
· We may experience harassment or discrimination.
· Some relationships will permanently change.
When you weigh up the pros and cons of being open about who you are, its important to remember that the person in charge is you. You decide who to confide in, when to do it and how. You will also know when coming out just doesn’t feel right or isn’t advisable.
Your sexuality is a part of you, but it doesn’t have to define who you are. Living openly doesn’t change the unique things that make you who you are.
